Getting Twins Ready to Start School

Your children starting school is one of the biggest milestones you'll face. For me it was certainly the most emotive, my babies were really growing up. It was the start of a new chapter, the boys being more independent from us, off to make new friends and learn so many new things.  For families with twins, starting school means there may be some extra things to consider.

The Guilt of a Preemie Twin Mum

Yesterday I missed something, an event in Ethan's school life that I should have been there for.  He received two certificates at premier assembly and I wasn't there to see him standing up in front of everyone.  I didn't see his face, searching for me in the crowd and smiling and me smiling back so proud.  I know there'll be others and he'll soon forget it but it really upset me. I was over emotional after a long week where I hadn't felt well and was ready for a break, but there was something else behind that guilt. It was a guilt that has been there for six and a half years.

Ten Things I Wish I’d Known About Breastfeeding

WordPress tells me that this is my 100th blog post so I wanted to make it a special one. One of the topics I haven't written about yet is breastfeeding. This is because it's a highly emotive subject, certainly for me and many others, and it's one of those topics that everyone has an opinion about.  I'm saving my breastfeeding journey for later but today I'm writing a post that I hope will be useful to both expectant and new parents and that will also be an interesting read for others.

April is C-Section Awareness Month – Can a caesarean birth be a positive experience?

For a long long time I struggled with the fact that I had a caesarean birth, I felt my body had failed, that a woman's body is made for giving birth naturally and that I couldn't. I blamed myself for not having enough knowledge around the decisions I made during labour and not knowing how to help myself to progress.  I don't know exactly when it happened but around the time I got my new job in summer last year I had a revelation of acceptance.

Mother’s Day Giveaway with Lily Rose London

With Mother's Day coming up in less than two weeks time, have you decided what to buy yet? Or is it that you are a mum who will be treated to your own choice of gift. I approached Lily Rose London to ask if they would work with me on a Mother's Day giveaway and was so pleased when they offered to donate one of their gorgeous bumble bee necklaces. My Mum bought me one for Christmas and I absolutely love it.

How Do You Feel in Your Postpartum Body? – Guest Post by Brigitte Evans

Are you constantly tired? Excited and exhausted at the same time? Avoiding the mirror like the plague? Craving both cupcakes and your old jeans back? Every mum goes through a different emotional rollercoaster, but for the most part of the journey, the focus is on the little bundle of joy that you bring to this world. That, however, doesn’t mean that mums don’t need to go through a period of adaptation, in order to bond with the baby, embrace their changed physical appearance and find their inner femme fatale again.

Memories of words & events fade but the feelings stay with you forever

I go to the desk and am told that no one can help me tonight as they have staff off sick, so I go back to my room.  I start to panic as I struggle to get my head around feeding both babies by myself.  I feel so alone with such a huge responsibility, overwhelmed and struggling to come to terms with what has happened over the last few days.

5 Things I’ve Learnt Since Becoming a Parent

1. You will love more intensely than you ever thought possible   For me it didn't come straight away. The boys had to go to the neonatal unit for a few days.  I never got that rush of love as soon as they were born.  We had to get to know each other slowly.  Days were dark for the first three months and my mood was low, but after that 12 week mark a cloud seemed to lift and I started to go out to groups and meet other mums.  I got slowly more confident and actually started to enjoy being a mum.  Now even when they drive me absolutely crazy I just couldn't love them more.  They amaze me every day. Sometimes I still can't quite believe they're mine, I'm so proud to be their mum.  

It’s Twins! The Story of our 12 Week Scan

I'd wanted to have a baby for quite a while and we were incredibly lucky that we got pregnant within three months of starting trying.  The first few weeks were pretty easy in that i did't really have any pregnancy symptoms. It was from around 8 weeks pregnant when I started to suffer with nausea.  It was constant, 24 hours a day for probably the next 8 weeks solid, although I never threw up once.  As long as I kept eating little and often I could manage to control it.  I remember being at work and secretly eating ginger biscuits at my desk to try to combat it.  I also remember having to get up in the middle of the night to sit on the sofa and eat a flapjack because I just felt so sick and hungry at the same time!